This is only the beginning

How did the hours turn to days? How did our vibrant little girl get so lost…so quickly. Her moments of joy are becoming shorter and fewer. Her smiles not so radiant and her laughter just a little quieter. She utters only groans and whimpers of pains, exhaustion and discomfort.

We started this path towards her miracle on August 19th with 4 days of some pretty awful and intense chemotherapy to prepare her body for stem cell collection. That cycle of treatment took only a few days to start the feared attack on her cells, healthy or not. We saw her hair quickly fall out within a matter of days, she became neutropenic, febrile and consumed with numerous bacterial and viral infections and she lost a few of her beautiful pounds. We spent more than half of the last month hospitalized, in isolation, far from home and away from the boys. This is only the beginning…

Last week after being discharged from SickKids and CHEO, we travelled back and forth daily for several preparatory appointments and procedures to ensure that Abbigail’s organs, body and system are well enough to withstand the next steps towards that miracle on this journey. After an exhausting week, dozens of pokes, blood draws, nurse injections, scans, office visits and more, Abbigail and family celebrated birthdays and spent some amazing quality time just being together.

Tomorrow there are several critical appointments to be had, one will be surgery to remove her port and replace it with a central venous line which will be used during chemo, transplant and post treatments. This type of line will be a huge change for Abbigail and likely a source of discomfort, frustration and even pain in the coming weeks as she adjusts. She must endure so much…

So the journey continues, with hopes of better days, or fewer difficult ones. Abbigail is stubborn and let’s very little control her. Tomorrow she will awake from surgery and I will hold her and remind her of her beauty, strength and the bright pink body she will then have (sterile cleaner dye) in hopes of catching my breath and maybe even seeing a glimpse of our firecracker’s spirit and that contagious smile before the days turn into months.

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